Do you wake up and say, “I want my life to suck today?” Personal Coach
See, we can often hold ourselves back BECAUSE we are smart and mindful of ourselves and actions. That’s why with my personal coach and mentor clients, and in classes where I teach a How to Become a Life Coach Certification course, we talk about putting too much pressure on ourselves.
The “WHY do I do this to myself?” thing…
As bazillionaire Robert Herjavec has a good point, we will see how it relates later.
How do you rate? What do you do to build up your clan?
Remember…
Quiz yourself at this end of this blog to see how you fair?
Doc Warren Lifestyle Coach here…
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Giggers need to learn to build themselves for their customer clan? As The New Rich are effective Entrepreneurs they have learned to develop themselves for experiencing optimal lifestyles.
Today we are aligning our Success Skill #6: Develop Yourself with Gig Business SuccessStep-2: Know your CLAN and build them up.
The 5 Steps so you can build your Gig business to the next level and experience your optimal income.
| Step-1: Use inexpensive digital marketing. | (Yes, for local small businesses, you can “set it and forget it” to get your BIG DATA too.) |
| Step-2: Know your CLAN and build them up. | (Get to KNOW THEM WELL.) |
| Step-3: Automate and outsource to streamline processes to reduce wasted activity and space. | (Think Disney or McDonald’s.) |
| Step-4: Scale your business. | (E.g. A local bakery can sell an online eBook with recipes and Ideas for Entertaining.) |
| Step-5: Enjoy your Gig business optimal freedom lifestyle. | (Your goal is a 4-Hour Work Week.) |
Don’t beat yourself up. You’re smart and very resourceful…
You ever seen someone very successful, and they seem either crazy, or to have half the smarts you have? I don’t mean that to sound mean. It’s just how it is sometimes, right?
A big reason why someone like this can get to 6 to 7-figures in their Gig business? They simply stay out of their own way, mainly because they don’t know any better. Even my most successful clients battle with procrastination and perfectionism at times when it comes to getting things done.
We tend to procrastinate if we are a perfectionist when it comes to getting things done. The problem is, things are almost never perfect. Just like life itself.
A few years ago a potential client once noted that she could tell my eBook wasn’t quite done and wondered why I still published it. I told her there were two reasons. First, I get more questions and feedback so I can adjust to what readers want to know. Second, if I wait until it is complete/perfect, I will never publish it.
Your customer clan will comment and share ideas when they see opportunities, especially if they like you.
Perfectionism? It’s the death and bane to many smart and savvy folks side-businesses, which could bring them the good life they’re after.
One thing that can help is to take some pressure off yourself, is to get feedback as you near finishing a project. Another thing is to accept getting things to “good enough”. You can always go back and improve things later, but you may not ever get a chance to if you give yourself permission.
Because of all the success and results you’ll be getting from just taking massive IMPERFECT action. Remember, getting things to the 100% finished stage is just like perfectionism, they both kill you.
I don’t think anyone wakes up and says, ‘I want my life to suck today.’ Robert Herjavec
Hope this may be helpful.
In your corner.
All the Best,
Your Personal Coach, Doc Warren Linger
Developing yourself. Exercise #10:
As a Gigger in the global Gig economy, what projects do you have that are almost done or you want to make better and they are draining your Gig Flow experiences?
Look at these examples of projects Giggers say they feel so draining because they are not perfect.
- I keep saying I want to make my eBook a little big better
- I feel a few things could be improved in my webinar before it goes live
- I see a several ideas in my new campaign that are not good enough yet
Write 3 Gigger projects do you see could you tell yourself are “good enough” so you can feel free to build yourself up to get flow in other ways?
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Look at your list and attack all of them (usually only one at a time) idea to apply this week:
- Write your your project.
- List steps 1-2 steps they could use to complete.
- Give yourself give yourself 5-10 to complete the 2 steps and then say the project is done.
- Reward yourself after you have completed or written-off your projects.
Debrief: The point here is to get over your own “NO, I can’t,” response and develop yourself so you can have your business success and your optimal lifestyle.
If you are looking at this exercise and saying, “this feels awkward,” that is good. The important part is you will get used to it, as your life, family, and business depend on it.
I don’t think anyone wakes up and says, ‘I want my life to suck today.’ Robert Herjavec
NOTE: If you don’t scale to build-up yourself for your clan, you may soon join the 80% of small businesses that fail within the first 5 years!
PSNext time you will learn another step on your Gigger Self Development path to success. If you would like more skill development to prevent giving up your own needs, email me at drwarren@cict.co.
Hope this helps.
Doc Warren Linger
@DrWarrenLINGER
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We’ll all be there to celebrate your big successes, and to help you up if and when you should ever fall…
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Engagement background of Optimal Engagement Lifestyle
As a trainer and university lecturer in the USA, I had great success in my coaching, training, and classrooms by engaging my learners in ways I had learned from my Dale Carnegie Instructor Training. (optimal engagement)
After earning my Doctoral Degree researching engaging instruction in adult education and training and development, I started a training business in Hong Kong.
But something was wrong, I was struggling in this new culture (I’m a cattle rancher’s son from Colorado, USA) to find ways to inspire and motivate my coachees and students in Hong Kong.
With my coachees and in the classroom, I preferred having clients engage in learning activities instead of just talking. This is especially effective to keep clients engaged between coaching calls.
I struggled through trying several paper worksheets and workbooks to guide students, but I wasn’t getting the results I wanted. (junk engagement)
When the smart phone with the ability to search the internet came along, I could see my clients were curating (i.e. searching, finding, collecting, commenting, changing, remixing, and sharing.)
I thought, “Why not do that for learning?”, so I started asking them to answer questions, interact with information and colleagues, and go find examples of the learning content using their mobile devices.
eWorkbook development and success
I began searching for possibilities and I struggled testing several apps, until we created best practices using eWorkbooks, and after testing them, began to use eWorkbooks as my clients always had their devices with them.
Then we used eWorkbooks (Google Forms with the training slides as well as interactive questions, curating links and tasks, example images and videos, etc.) This became powerful for my coaching clients as they were able to share ideas and get the benefits of social learning even though they were not in the training course or classroom.
My clients [Engaging Screenagers] completed eWorkbooks using their mobile devices as they were learning interactively while, at the same time, they were developing habits of learning with their devices (optimal engagement) instead of killing time with them. (junk engagement)
Students used eWorkbooks to while I lead the discussion and guided them, and after they submitted their answers, they would get their responses sent to their inbox so they could review their learning Moments of Growth. (optimal engagement)
Because the students’ responses from eWorkbooks go right into a spreadsheet in real-time, as the teacher I can monitor what students are doing to give them guidance in the moment, as well as track their learning develop over time.
Since those early days, I’ve had great luck supporting my coaching clients and entrepreneur friends use Google forms for 360° reviews for evaluations as well as use eBrochures and eMenus to test new ideas and actively engage and actively interact with customers.
All client info has been scrubbed of identifying information unless they have given me specific, written permission to quote them.
*Entrepreneurial Foundation>Success Skills adapted from World Life Skills Expert, Jill Raiguel’s awesome book, “The Next Step,” (1991) Amethyst Books, New York.
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Cut the draining perfectionist projects to build-up yourself and your clan so you can improve your business and build your optimal lifestyle. Can you apply bazillionaire Robert Herjavec’s point,? The New Rich feel worthy to build a clan for optimal lifestyles.
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