Two-letter word—secret to optimal lifestyle #EngagingScreenagers

Father and son, The Cap'n, at his school. Engaging with family before it's too late. #MomentsofEngagement
Two-letter word—secret to optimal lifestyle #EngagingScreenagers
Once you get used to this, it may even become FUN…
Learning how to master a two-letter word can make all the difference in the world!

Hi there, Dr Warren again…






The two-letter word?
NO.
Getting better at both saying no, and getting more comfortable at hearing the word no, can result in breakthrough after breakthrough.
Are you saying “yes” to your appropriate emotions and “no” to your inappropriate emotions?
Often, we just say no to all emotions when some can support your lifestyle freedom.
When we don’t allow ourselves to validate and permit ourselves to experience appropriate emotions we prohibit ourselves from experiencing our own optimal, engaged lifestyle.
High-achievers learn to validate and permit themselves to experience emotions that support their successful lifestyles.
Expressing APPROPRIATE Emotions is Life Skill #3 according to World Life Skills Expert, Jill Raiguel.

Your income can skyrocket; your lifestyle can engage your passions. You’ll free up hours each day.
Yet…
Saying no can be hard can’t it?
We feel like we may be letting someone down, or it may feel like we’re rejecting them or will be judged ourselves.
There’s also FOMO. The fear of missing out is can be an inappropriate emotion.
We just don’t want to turn down a good opportunity.
I get it.
But if we can let go of all that, and just so “No” when we need to?
Then we’re able to get results and focus on what really, truly matters to us.
This may help…
Imagine you’re going to the airport. You’ve booked and paid for a vacation to Hawaii.
The plane takes off in one hour.
Your friend calls and wants to have lunch.
“You down for tacos, buddy?!”
Would you have a problem saying NO?
Likely not, right?
Why?
Because, you have a clear purpose and destination. You’ve got an agenda.
Set plans.
There’s somewhere you’re going.
So here’s the thing.
Shouldn’t all our days be like this?
We don’t want to be like a ship at sail without a destination. At the whim of every wave and change of winds.
With a finite purpose in your days, just like headed to the airport, it can be much, much easier to say no.
Hope this helps!
As I mentioned, being a bit better at saying no can free up hours and hours of your time.
So if building a nice income on the side has been a big goal of yours, but time has been an issue…
This should help you free up the 30 to 60 minutes or so a day that’s required to build up to a nice side income.
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If you can find about 30 minutes a day, and can follow the plan, it can result in up to $10K commissions.
You won’t get to $10K overnight, but we’ll start with a plan to get your first commission up to $1k.
Then you’ll be off to the races.
Deal?
All the Best,
Warren Linger
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Engagement background before eWorkbooks
As a trainer and university lecturer in the USA, I had great success in my coaching, training, and classrooms by engaging my learners in ways I had learned from my Dale Carnegie Instructor Training. (optimal engagement)
After earning my Doctoral Degree researching engaging instruction in adult education and training and development, I started a training business in Hong Kong.
But something was wrong, I was struggling in this new culture (I’m a cattle rancher’s son from Colorado, USA) to find ways to inspire and motivate my coachees and students in Hong Kong.
With my coachees and in the classroom, I preferred having clients engage in learning activities instead of just talking. This is especially effective to keep clients engaged between coaching calls.  
I struggled through trying several paper worksheets and workbooks to guide students, but I wasn’t getting the results I wanted. (junk engagement)
When the smart phone with the ability to search the internet came along, I could see my clients were curating (i.e. searching, finding, collecting, commenting, changing, remixing, and sharing.)
I thought, “Why not do that for learning?”, so I started asking them to answer questions, interact with information and colleagues, and go find examples of the learning content using their mobile devices.
eWorkbook development and success
I began searching for possibilities and I struggled testing several apps, until we created best practices using eWorkbooks, and after testing them, began to use eWorkbooks as my clients always had their devices with them.
Then we used eWorkbooks (Google Forms with the training slides as well as interactive questions, curating links and tasks, example images and videos, etc.) This became powerful for my coaching clients as they were able to share ideas and get the benefits of social learning even though they were not in the training course or classroom.
My clients [Engaging Screenagers] completed eWorkbooks using their mobile devices as they were learning interactively while, at the same time, they were developing habits of learning with their devices (optimal engagement) instead of killing time with them. (junk engagement)
Students used eWorkbooks to while I lead the discussion and guided them, and after they submitted their answers, they would get their responses sent to their inbox so they could review their learning Moments of Growth. (optimal engagement)
Because the students’ responses from eWorkbooks go right into a spreadsheet in real-time, as the teacher I can monitor what students are doing to give them guidance in the moment, as well as track their learning develop over time.


Since those early days, I’ve had great luck supporting my coaching clients and entrepreneur friends use Google forms for 360° reviews for evaluations as well as use eBrochures and eMenus to test new ideas and actively engage and actively interact with customers.

Father and son, The Cap’n, at his school. Engaging with family before it’s too late. #MomentsofEngagement
Two-letter word—secret to optimal lifestyle #EngagingScreenagers

Getting better at both saying no, and getting more comfortable at hearing the word no, can result in breakthrough after breakthrough. Are you saying “yes” to your appropriate emotions and “no” to your inappropriate emotions? Often, we just say no to all emotions when some can support your lifestyle freedom.
#EngagingScreenagers; #WarrenLINGER; #MomentsofGrowth; #MomentsofEngagement;  #eWorkbooks; #eBrochures; #DrWarrenLINGER; #OptimalEngagement; #JunkEngagement; #EngageintheScreenage;
Dr Warren LINGER © 2018

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